There was a time when you heard that any guy could learn how to seduce a woman and yet, you were skeptical enough of this claim to assume that it could not be for you. You assumed that no matter what, it would not be in your future to be able to do this. So, you did what most guys did and did absolutely nothing to learn how to get better with women. And here you are now. A guy who spends most of his free time in the company of a television and maybe a computer and that is it.
You need to get your social life back on track and the only way to do that is to become a little more open minded and a lot less skeptical about the idea that you can actually do this. Remember that when it comes to attraction, it is about the way that you carry yourself and the way that you make a woman feel.